Nontraditional Wedding Ideas for Nontraditional Couples

Your wedding doesn’t have to look like anyone else’s. If the idea of tossing a bouquet, slicing a multi-tiered cake, or doing a first dance in front of a hundred people makes you cringe a little... take a breath. You’re not doing it wrong, you’re just not doing it their way. And that’s the best part about nontraditional wedding ideas! 

You don’t have to follow tradition for tradition’s sake. Your wedding should feel like you! Your vibe, your humor, your history, your love story. Whether you’re planning a big celebration or an intimate ceremony, there’s so much freedom to create something that feels right. So here are some of my favorite nontraditional wedding ideas I’ve seen couples include that were just as personal as they were unforgettable! 

8 Nontraditional Wedding Ideas For Your Wedding Day

1. Two Officiants, Twice the Heart

Who says one person gets all the mic time? At Abby and Ben’s wedding, they had two officiants—and it was such a beautiful, unexpected touch. The ceremony became a blend of stories, perspectives, and humor that made everyone laugh and tear up. It felt less like a performance and more like a conversation with the people who knew them best.

2. Florals with Personality (and Cactus)

Wendy added cactus to her bouquet—and I’m still obsessed. Your floral choices are a perfect way to show off your personality. Go bold, go dried, go wildflower—you don’t have to stick to roses if they don’t feel right. Let your bouquet be a reflection of your roots, your location, or even just your favorite color palette.

3. A Ceremony That Breaks the Mold

Ceremonies don’t have to be stiff. One of the most moving moments I’ve seen was when Emmersen and Ethan invited their family members up during the ceremony to pray over them. I’ve also seen couples cast fishing lines, sip whiskey, and laugh their way through the whole thing. If something feels meaningful to you—do it. This is your space to make your own.

4. Pop Culture, but Make It Poetic

Lottie and Matt are proof that wedding readings don’t have to be from a classic poem or a religious text. They chose excerpts from The Grateful Dead and Twilight: Breaking Dawn, and it was SO them. Add those song lyrics, book quotes, or movie lines that mean something to you. Pop culture references can be deeply emotional when they hit just right.

5. Vows That Tell Your Story

Ditch the one-size-fits-all script. One of my brides read journal entries from when she and her now-husband first started dating. Your vows are one of the most personal parts of the day—so whether you're writing a love letter, making people laugh, or pulling something from your past, make it yours.

6. Walk the Aisle Your Way

You don’t have to walk with your dad. Or anyone at all. Jennifer and Mikael walked down the aisle together, then split to either side of a pool and met in the middle. It was symbolic and stunning. Whether it’s your mom, your grandma, your best friend—or a solo walk with your favorite song—choose what feels right.

7. Let Your Quirks Shine

The best moments are the ones that feel like inside jokes shared with the world. Savannah and Drew played rock-paper-scissors to decide who would read their vows first. Alexa and Jon had a “concession stand” with candy and popcorn in honor of the movie theater where they met. These details are fun, personal, and totally unforgettable.

8. Dance With Someone Who Matters Most

The “father-daughter” and “mother-son” dances are sweet, but they don’t apply to everyone—and that’s okay. Kylee danced with her mom and it was hands-down one of the most joyful, heartwarming parts of the night. This moment is about honoring someone meaningful in your life—whoever that may be.

So Here’s Your Permission Slip:

You don’t have to follow tradition.You don’t need to check every box. You don’t have to please everyone.

You just have to make it yours.

The most memorable weddings I’ve filmed weren’t the ones with the fanciest centerpieces or most polished timelines. They were the ones where couples fully leaned into who they are—with humor, heart, and total authenticity.

So if you're looking for nontraditional wedding ideas, start with this question: “What would make this feel like us?” And build from there.

Head to my Pinterest for more nontraditional wedding ideas in Arizona and beyond! 

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Whether you're dreaming of a wedding day that feels effortlessly to you,filled with real, unscripted moments, or you want a film that transports you back to the way it felt, you deserve more than a standard wedding video. You deserve a wedding videography experience that’s as authentic and timeless as your love story. That’s exactly what I’m here to create. Let’s capture the moments that matter most,without the awkward posing or forced emotions. Ready to relive your day, exactly as it happened? Let’s make it happen! Get in touch, here! 

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